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Each day that we have with Loie is a great day :) she is doing well, trying to squeeze in a little extra with her feeds so she can gain some weight. The other night when I was talking with a nurse on the phone, she had me repeat myself 3 times when I told her she is 3 months old and 7 pounds. Took me a minute to realize why that seemed off..  ha! Normal to us!
Loie is SO much like her brother. It is like time travelling. She makes the same annoyed faces, arches the same one eyebrow, eats the same, sleeps the same, same same same! So weird! I was prepared for two completely new different Babies! I know Pearl would have been just the same.
Monday is pulmonology and the rest of the week is filled to the brim with weight checks, in home care, OT,  PT,  infant toddler program, and who knows what I'm forgetting! Loie has been doing so well on her O2. Sometimes she pulls the cannula out of her nose but still hits 98-100% saturation easily!
She loves bath time and her hair gets so fluffy and curly afterwards, I just love it!
Lennon is still adjusting. Mostly, he doesn't pay much attention to his sister but still is very clingy to mom. Today, when looking at pictures, I said, "where is mama?" He pointed to Justin. Close enough! I'm just glad he is pointing now!!
These kids have our hearts wrapped tightly in their little fists :) never knew how much you could love a person until we had them. <3
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